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Your ex

Feelings and the outlook with a former partner

The Your ex is a tarot spread of 3 cards with the positions how they feel about you, the chance of getting back together, advice for you. Feelings and the outlook with a former partner. It suits you when the question is about feelings, a partner or where a relationship is going. You can do it online below: the cards are drawn at random from the full 78-card deck, reversals included, and Mira writes the reading position by position.

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The layout (3)

1
How they feel about you
2
The chance of getting back together
3
Advice for you

When the Your ex is the right spread

The reading about an ex is for one specific moment: when the story is formally over and internally still open. It answers how the person relates to you now, whether there is a real chance of getting back together, and what you should do regardless of the first two answers.

It doesn't suit a break-up that happened this week: the cards will show an emotional storm rather than a state of affairs. Give the story at least a month. And don't take it if only one answer will do — "yes, he'll come back". With that request all three positions get misread.

How to read the positions

How they feel about you is today, not the day you separated. This is often where you see that the story cooled long ago on one side and never did on the other.

The chance of getting back together is the most technical position in the spread. Read it without hope: strong cards of movement (Aces, the Chariot, the Eight of Wands) speak of real probability; static ones (Fours, the Two of Swords, the Hanged Man) say everything stays as it is. Note the Six of Cups separately: it is about returning to the past, not about the past continuing.

Advice for you is the only position you can act on. If the first two said no and something warm lands here, the spread isn't talking about him — it is telling you how to come out of this whole.

How to word your question

Ask it like this: "what is between me and name now". Not "will he come back" — that question shrinks the whole reading down to the second position and wastes the third, which is usually the useful one.

A common mistake

A frequent mistake is taking the chance position as a promise. It describes probability given the current state of affairs, not a person's decision. People change decisions, and cards don't override that.

A worked example

Feeling — Five of Cups. Chance — Four of Pentacles. Advice — Eight of Cups. The reading: he regrets what happened but is holding on to the familiar and will change nothing, and the advice to you is to leave first — not in resentment, but for real. Regret and readiness are different things.

Frequently asked about the Your ex

What does the Your ex show?+

Feelings and the outlook with a former partner. It uses 3 cards: How they feel about you, The chance of getting back together, Advice for you. Each position opens up one facet of the question, and together they form a single picture.

How many cards are in the Your ex?+

3 cards. The positions: 1) How they feel about you; 2) The chance of getting back together; 3) Advice for you.

How do I lay out the Your ex myself?+

Put your question into words, shuffle the deck and draw 3 cards in order — one for each position (How they feel about you, The chance of getting back together, Advice for you). Then read each card in its position and tie them into one story. Faster online: Mira draws the cards and reads them for you in the bot.

Can I do the Your ex online for free?+

Your first reading in the bot is free. Ask Mira your question: she shuffles honestly and explains every card in plain words.

What kind of questions is the Your ex good for?+

Feelings and the outlook with a former partner. It works best when the question is about feelings, a partner or where a relationship is going.

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